Ah, I see :). I tend to wonder/ask that of most of the new people I meet from Europe, since there were so many different countries represented at Patronus (it wasn't a huge con, but, ah, Europe - you guys only have to sneeze to be in another country *envy*), and a number of people I spoke to only with real names :). It would be funny to friend someone on LJ at a later date and not have the penny drop.